Intimate, Easy, Affordable, Unique:
an Elopement at our Estate

As an intimate alternative to a full day wedding, the Roxbury Barn & Estate offers couples the option of an elegant, but easy-to-manage elopement, which is available on Sunday, Monday, or Thursday, from mid May till mid October.


Sunday or Weekday Elopement

Intimate four-hour
afternoon celebration

Minimum party size: 10, maximum party size: 20 persons

The couple arrives at The Captain’s House, the property’s residence, to get ready in two designated rooms, while other guests gather at our Hilltop Pavilion for a welcome refreshment.

There’s enough time for some formal photos, shot anywhere on the property (though a photographer is not included in this offer).

Ceremony follows at the Pine Grove, or in the roofed hill top pavilion. There are, of course, no rules: have the wonderful, meaning filled ceremony that fits your styles and personalities.

After the ceremony, drinks and hors d’oeuvres are served at the barn, by a bartender and server, for 1 ½ hours. Toasts, cocktails, a First Dance, it’s all possible. We’ll arrange music to your liking.

The Roxbury Barn supplies a venue coordinator for the event; an ordained officiant (though you are free to bring your own wedding person); a 4-seater cart with driver; a simple but pretty wedding bouquet; and music, flowers and decor in the barn.

Your four-hour elopement can be scheduled anytime between 2pm and 7pm

Setup, coordination, chairs, tables, decor and lighting, flowers and wedding bouquet, speaker system and music, staff, beautiful restrooms and prep rooms, 4-seater cart with driver, drinks and hors d’oeuvres, glasses, linens, and plates, are all included.

We’ll gladly help you in finding a local wedding photographer for the afternoon, as well as transportation to one of the Central Catskills fine restaurants for a subsequent dinner.

Sorry, typical evening options, such as a bonfire or luminaries, are not available for an elopement.


Elope in the Catskills – Stress Free & Magical!

Dreaming of an intimate, serene wedding, without the pressure of planning, and at a modest budget? We’ve put together a one of a kind, all-inclusive experience for the very purpose of making your day stress free and affordable, yet incredibly beautiful in every way.
Catskills elopement at The Roxbury Barn & Estate
Get ready in two separate rooms at the Captain’s House, while others in your party enjoy a welcome drink at our hill top pavilion with mesmerizing views. We’ll drive you up the mountain for a ceremony in our enchanted pine grove (aka our natural cathedral). Afterwards, stroll down our rolling meadows, and celebrate with a toast and your first dance under the twinkling lights of our gorgeous carriage barn. There will be drinks and bites, and our staff will make everything look and sound beautiful.


Romantic Upstate elopement in the forestPersonalized Service

Before your arrival, we’ll style the barn and ceremony site to your liking, adding the desirable number of chairs and tables, arrange for the music you prefer, add flowers, and a wedding bouquet that matches your style. We’ll also offer you our Lodging List, with over a hundred lodging options in the Central Catskills, and advise on some great subsequent dinner options. No worries about stress, no long to-do lists involved.



Elopement at the Pine Grove at The Roxbury Barn


What’s Included:

Setup of all estate locations, including barn, pavilion and pine grove

Coordinated flowers and wedding bouquet

Day-of coordination

Four-seater cart with driver

Bartender and server

Two prep rooms for the wedding couple

Arrival at hill top pavilion with mountain vista, with iced tea and lemonade

The Pine Grove for your vows

Two rain-alternatives for the vows: the pavilion, or the gorgeous top floor of our barn

Services of a certified wedding officiant

Vintage wooden chairs for your ceremony

Beautifully landscaped lawns, ponds & gardens

A portable PA system with mic & mic stand for your ceremony

All tables, chairs & outdoor furniture

Use of our pristine, 163 year old Carriage Barn

Drinks and hors d’oeuvres after the vows

All linens, glasses, plates & silverware

Speaker system & mixer in the barn

Music preparations with couples preferred playlist

Real, beautiful restrooms in the barn

Gorgeous lighting, in & outside

Wireless internet and phone access

Designated on-site parking area

All breakdown and cleanup

Our Lodging List, with over a hundred lodging options in our area

Our guiding list of recommended restaurants in the area, for a subsequent dinner.


Booking Your Upstate Elopement

In order to reserve the grounds and barn for your elopement, we require that couples sign a rental agreement and pay a non-refundable deposit of $3000. We accept checks only. The remaining rental fee (the rental fee minus the $3000 deposit) for your elopement will be due one month before the event.

Check out our elopement rates.


Available Elopement Dates:

Unlike full day weekend weddings, elopements can usually be booked until closer to the wedding date. For availability, please contact us.


The Legal Details

We promise to keep things simple for you, but of course, you will need a marriage license! Special elopement location in the CatskillsIn New York State, couples must apply in person for a marriage license to any town or city clerk in the state. The marriage ceremony may not take place within 24 hours from the exact time that the license was issued.
A marriage license is valid for 60 calendar days, beginning the day after it is issued. No premarital examination or blood test is required to obtain a marriage license in New York State. Find all the details on getting your marriage license right here.


Catskills New York Elopement BrochureElopement Brochure (PDF)

More information?
Download our Elopement brochure with all the details on catering options and booking.